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(Greedy) Girls Just Wanna Have Fun
It’s a Friday night and Andrea is getting ready for a very special night in with her husband Dave. Andrea can...
It’s a Friday night and Andrea is getting ready for a very special night in with her husband Dave. Andrea can barely slip into her silky lingerie in anticipation while Dave is waiting for his lovely wife on their bed, wearing little more than a bathrobe and a knowing grin.
The door bell rings. Andrea’s heart races fast as Dave goes to welcome their guest into the house.
Andrea looks over to see Matt at the bedroom door. He has the same devious look on his face as he did the last time he paid Andrea and Dave a visit. He moves towards Andrea and plants a soft kiss on her neck.
“Hope you’re up for a good night. My mate Rob’s on his way too.”
So unfolds another tale of a greedy girl getting her just desserts. Indeed, more and more women are experiencing the delights of being the centre of multiple male attention and having more than one toy to play with. Such is the growing prevalence of greedy girls that many swingers clubs around Australia organise events specifically geared towards women who want two or more male playmates in a session. Many couples on RHP are also testing the waters with MFM threesomes while ladies with bigger appetites are organising private gang bangs regularly.
Involving single guys into couple play (and on this occasion we’ll just refer to straight males) isn’t particularly new but it does beg a number of questions: What sort of couple enjoys including single guys? Isn’t anyone interested in girl-on-girl action anymore? And, how does the male partner really feel about the extra penis, or even penises? We’ll also look at how you can find the right guys to make your night an occasion worthy of turning into a DVD.
The easiest group fun to organise
As any couple who’s been on RedHotPie long enough to know, it isn’t always easy to find the right couple to meet and play with, let alone a single girl. Even when you finally get to meet some socially compatible couples, it’s not unusual to find that their playing habits differ greatly to yours. For example, the lady of one couple may expect a marathon session whereas the male of the other couple is generally content with one quality session before succumbing to the need to sleep. On other occasions, the lady doesn’t even get the extra rogering if the other party is not into swapping sex, or (alas...) if the other gentleman is unable to perform for one reason or another.
Given these scenarios, it’s easy to see why many couples are starting to look at single guys as a surefire way to have fun. Single guys are plentiful on RHP which makes finding the right playmate/s amongst them quite easy. Before too long, you can rack up a veritable short list of eligible guys who can go hard, go all night and go home when the job is done. Most are happy to home deliver too and rarely insist on a lengthy dinner or drinks session before working out if sex is or isn’t on the cards. Score! Got a thing for blondes? Requiring someone with an exceptional power tool? Whatever you need, you can find it amongst the good men on RHP.
Are some couples over girl-on-girl fun?
Surely not! How can anyone be bored of watching two (or more) gorgeous girls getting it on, much less being in the thick of it? Actually, most guys will agree that at some point it’s just as enjoyable sinking a cold one out the back with the other dude while the ladies go for it. Furthermore, given how suggestively girls dance with each other at a night club these days, watching actual girl-on-girl action isn’t a huge stretch from that. Unless the invitation to join in is extended, a guy’s just gotta be happy that his lady is having a great time.
And is she? Perhaps not as much as you’d think. She’s not a lesbian after all and there is only so much mutual brazilian-waxing appreciation she can do in one night. Let’s be frank and admit that women still want penetrative sex and often with a man other than her own partner if she’s in the swinging scene. If a woman is mainly out to experiment with other females, then this point (and the entire article really) is moot. However, for ladies who unashamedly enjoy sex with men and can find the presence (and expectations) of the other woman a distraction, single guys are ideal. In most cases, single guys are a sure thing and don’t demand a set of conditions in order to perform. It’s pure pleasure for the lady, through and through.
How do men feel about their partners having sex with other men?
Many people can’t help but raise the issue of jealousy and potential cheating when the idea of involving another man is entertained. However, bringing a single male into the bedroom is no more problematic than bringing in another couple or female. After all, a woman is just as likely to form a sexual or emotional attachment to another woman, whereas many single guys are happy to be included with no strings attached. The qualities that seem to malign single men in the eyes of some couples (ie - focussed on sex, wanting to get on with things immediately etc.) are the very reasons why you can be guaranteed a no-fuss night of fun that doesn’t end in tears and dramas.
The mistrust in single men probably also stems from a man’s insecurity in his own relationship or even in himself. The idea that ‘his woman’ can be sexually pleasured by another man is overwhelmingly repellent. Others are just simply frightened that his partner will eventually find the other male more attractive and run off with him. Therefore, the sort of man who enjoys seeing his lady with other men is precisely the opposite of those two types. He can separate his ego from sexual pleasure and understands that the enjoyment derived by his partner is more from the situation than the individual. He’s also very secure and committed in his relationship so doesn’t see the other male as a threat. Of course, he’s also sensible enough to place some boundaries beforehand to ensure that the playing field is kept fair for all concerned.
Overall, men who are in a healthy, stable relationship with their partner love seeing her in all her sexual glory and desired by others, be it men or women. Watching a woman at play with one or more other men is a huge turn on, whether it’s because the naughty sex slave in her comes out, or because she’s in the captain’s seat and commanding her crew as she pleases.
Finding the right single guy
We’ve mentioned that lining up single guys for a greedy girl’s night in is relatively easy, but the finding the right guys does need some forward planning. Experienced couples may prefer similarly experienced guys in order to avoid awkward moments with newbies who have never been naked in front of another male, never mind get an erection. On the other hand, some couples may fantasise about initiating a guy into his first MFM threesome. Some couples prefer attached men for the perceived sense of security (no ongoing hassles) but others need guys who don’t have a personal life that gets in the way of spontaneous play sessions.
Aside from finding guys that the lady finds attractive, it’s important to consider other details such as endowment, body hair, tattoos and piercings, as well as smoking or drinking habits. It’s also essential to find out if your potential playmate has any underlying issues with having another man around while engaged in sexual activity. Many men work themselves up over the fantasy of MFM threesomes or orgies but find that they aren’t entirely comfortable with the reality, often much to the dismay of the couple who invests time and energy into meeting him.
Finally, as with meeting other couples and single females, do try and arrange a social meet with the single guy you chat up. Unless you are fairly comfortable to launch into a blind play session, it is a good idea to see if you are both compatible with the man in question. While the males won’t be playing with each other, it’s still important that your potential play friend is the sort of guy that your partner would happily have a beer with. Most importantly for the lady, it’s your night so take time to see if there is any chemistry. If there is none, end the evening with drinks and thank the guy for his time. If you can’t wait to rip his clothes off, then let’s hope you make it back to the car at least!
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Dec, 24 2012
RHPMD let's put that on the list for when I get back to Bondi! ;)
Dec, 24 2012
I have only been spit roasted a few times. Would love a DP with 2 hot guys. The idea of being a greedy girl for a night would also rock my boat. Any hot guy takers? Hmmmm......
Dec, 15 2012
Never tried,very keen,but concerned,she would have to be extremely hot clean and sensual and we would have to meet first
Dec, 07 2012
Looking for a women tonight for me and my partner FM to have a 3some
Nov, 18 2012
I love MFM! I am a straight male but love to share a hot girl with my mates. Ive done MFM with an ex-gf and a close mate of mine. It was soo hot man...next i wana share with more of my friends maybe 4 - 7 of my mates, plus me all fucking a horny chik. It would be awesome to get sumthing casually regular like this happening so we can explore all the possibilities of a gangbang. Any girls in Perth let me know if ya keen
Jun, 24 2012
ive experienced both mmf and ffm and found the mmf was more an experience of opportunity... whereas ffm happened by design. Maybe because guys are more likely to be spontaneous in that regaard?? im not sure... either way, all of them were amazing experiences!
Mar, 09 2012
What can i say - I get it all being a bisexual woman! I love FFM and MFM and even MMFM for the little extra spice. You simply can't explain the pleasure of double penetration, or to be performing oral while you're penetrated and still trying to focus on what you're doing ;) There are so many positions that are simply not achievable without the extra body...or bodies :) We have group sex quite regulary with home parties, organized parties and singles that like to play with us as threesomes. We've really found our niche in sex and love every minute of it!
May, 03 2011
Many a night has eventuated in doing the righty and sharing the love! Thats the australian way!
Feb, 03 2011
ive had many an encounter with bi couples where the lady is always the center of attention and with the guys being bi we can keep each other amused while putting on a show for the lady anyone looking for a versatile guy to join in look me up im keen and not shy about playing in front of an audience have fun
Nov, 17 2010
We have experienced MFM a few times and we both love it!!!!!!! Can't wait for the next time cos I have been promised more than two.
Sep, 26 2010
they are my favorite mfm !!! i sooooo am a greedy greedy girl lol i want to try a mmmf sooooooooooooooooooooon lol xxx
Nov, 01 2009
we tried it loved it want to try 3 or more now
Aug, 25 2009
I've been with three guys at once before and the idea just makes me so wet. It's a lot of fun.
Aug, 23 2009
LOVE the idea of this
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