Hello Sam, I was reading what you wrote about how us guys have to work hard on the spelling and grammer in our profiles, it just a shame that the girls don't put in any effort, but then with us out numbering them 10:1 they don't really have to. But my question is this, I'm dyslexic and have a great deal of difficulty reading and writing/typing, I have to tripple check every thing with a spell checker and still get stuff wrong, so this internet stuff is very difficult especially the chat rooms, can you offer me any real assistance in writing my profile

I get where you're coming from but I think men are less concerned about the spelling abilities of women. No offence but I think most can forgive a girl grammatical mistakes if she has breasts like ripe summer peaches. Right? Unfortunately for some guys, women are often the opposite. There isn't much point in a guy having a hot set of abs if his written profile makes him out to be as eloquent as a 12 year old. I think in your case, however, where it isn't so much the lack of effort that prevents you from writing correctly, it's probably worth asking a close friend to help out. Perhaps you can write the basics and spell check it, and then have someone read it and make corrections as required. Trust me, no one expects a perfect essay. In fact, that may freak some women out! For messages, perhaps you should have some templates prepared for the initial stages so you can just cut and paste parts. You can explain your situation later once you're chatting!

hi im 24/m from adelaide i havent been with a female for a few years now as in my last gf was 4 years ago but ive had fuck buddys since then but not for a couple of years . im a really nice guy but am abit shy when it comes to meeting females as i have mild acne and it affects my confidence . i am tryn to treat my acne so that some of my confidence will come back but am not having much results . i was wondering if there are any tips u could give me to help with my female problems? and also can i ask you if a guy having pimples affects a womens perception of them?

It doesn't sound to me that you have too many problems meeting women but perhaps your acne issues have held you back from meeting women on a more regular basis. I can't give you any medical advice but if you feel that your acne problem is worse than average, you may want to visit you GP who can prescribe something for you. However, I would suggest perhaps visiting a beautician (no, it's not just for girls) and see if they can start you on some treatments on the outside before you try taking medication. You might want to try visiting a naturopath as well and see if there are some natural remedies to try. As for women, most can forgive a pimple or two but more importantly, it's how you feel about yourself that matters. If you think you'd feel more confident with a clear face, then do something about it.

Is 42 too old to start dating again? Been out of the mix for a long time, dont know were to start.

Dating seems to be a game played by the younger set but as more and more people are putting off marriage until their 30s, or are coming out of a failed first marriage, the number of over 30s/40s going into the dating market is on the rise. Given that, you are certainly not old and not old for dating. RHP provides a few opportunities for singles to date. You might like to try attending a drinks night or a speed dating event. If you prefer to ease yourself into meeting people, it may be a good idea to join some social groups or sporting clubs and get to know people that way. Whatever you decide to try, you do need to be pro-active. Be prepared for things to take some time but before you know it, you may have a new circle of friends and plenty of avenues to date people.

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